Today I made a bold move. I cut off my relaxed and highlighted hair to reveal my natural texture. (Much love to Sharon of Salon Balisi!!!)It's been something I've fantasized doing for years but never had the nerve to do. Mostly, because chemically relaxed hair is more "acceptable" for a black woman who appears on TV, like I did for over a decade. Now that I'm not appearing on-camera anymore I didn't have to worry about any work-related issues.
More importantly, now that Baby Kendrick is in my belly I really didn't want to subject him/her to the chemicals that would enter my body if I continued to straighten my hair.
This is the first time in at least 22 years I have not had my hair chemically straightened and the first time in about 13 years I haven't had my hair highlighted or lightened.
What clinched the deal for me was seeing Chris Rock's "documentary" film "Good Hair." My review wouldn't exactly be complimentary to his film, but I was concerned by many of the issues Rock highlighted. Watch the trailer HERE.
Here's a look at my adventure today: http://www.photoshow.com/watch/WU6wc3un
I have a "supportive circle" who agrees with and understands my decision. On the flip side, I've already gotten some negative comments from family and friends. Can't say it didn't hurt a little. I'm only human. But it's a personal decision and I made it FOR ME.
1 comment:
Thanks for posting the photos. You created a very nice slide show to document this event. I like the haircut! It brings out your beautiful cheekbones :) You look like Elaine's twin, especially in the car photo. When it comes down to it, its your hair. Do what works for you. Try not to dwell on the negative comments. Its a big change, people will get used to it, and I'm sure you'll enjoy the freedom. BTW, Your little cousin says you look pretty.
-Luv Ya
Natalie
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